Galatians5:13-14 For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.
1Cor10:32-33 Give none offence, neither to the Jews, nor to the Gentiles, nor to the church of God: Even as I please all men in all things, not seeking mine own profit, but the profit of many, that they may be saved.
Ephesians6:5-8 Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, as unto Christ; Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but as the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart; With good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not to men: Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the same shall he receive of the Lord, whether he be bond or free.
One thing I fight with God about often, is this matter of serving others. I am a selfish human being, and often I don't want to think about what "they"(any one and everyone who isn't me) may want, just what I want.
But, as clearly said in many a place, I am to serve... Both God, and everyone else in the name of Christ Jesus. Salvation isn't simply about getting to go to heaven. It is accepting that God paid the price, and giving to him the life that is already his.
Gal2:20 I am crucified with Christ: nevertheless I live; yet not I, but Christ liveth in me: and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by the faith of the Son of God, who loved me, and gave himself for me.
1 cor 6:17 17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.
My life is Christ's. He own me twice over, and still has given my life to me to live. I can never repay Him, I can only do my best to obey Him.
Philippians2:4-7 Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others. Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: